10 Things To Do If You’re Single During Cuffing Season


Cuffing season is fastly approaching us and if you’re tired of being single and bored, start checking these things off the list!

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10 Ways To Navigate Cuffing Season:

1. Go to some events | Whether you’re into fashion like me or not, there are some cool events here and here (sign up for their newsletter).

2. Plan a girls getaway | hit up that explore page on airbnb. Find a dope home-a-way from home | call up a few friends and make it a weekend!
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3. Find a good book to read and start a digital book club | this is the best way to engage with people you may not know | starting a book club is a great way to stay accountable to actually reading and discovering things/topics you may like.
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4. Meet up with other women | have you tried meetup.com ? | messaging your favorite blogger and seeing if she wants to meet up for coffee? shoot your shot girl.
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5. Take yourself to a spa | make friends with Groupon | locate a deal | get yo calm on.
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6. Journal | buy one and vent | or write down some goals girl.
  • Pay off these student loan bills
  • Save 10%+ of my earnings
  • Devote more time to prayer
  • Invest in myself more
  • Spend more time with family & friends
7. Find a hobby or something that you enjoy doing on your own | discover “you” in your singleness girl.
I recently found out that I love taking photos!
8. Pick five different cuisines you’ve never had and find restaurants that offer them | #treatyoself .
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9. Start working out | take a class | did you know that Alvin Ailey has classes for the low that you can take? | rhythm or none, ain’t nobody judging you (my mom would be offended by my grammar here).
10. Stay off of social media | take some time off | free your mind
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Bonus: take a course! FIT offers courses in a range of different areas !Enjoy your life girl! Life is too short and there’s too much world out there for you to be sitting around miserable because you’re still single!



Sade Solomon is a woman who decided to drop everything she knew and was comfortable with to chase after her dreams. Since having the faith to change careers from social work to fashion, she’s been on this relentless and complex journey to discovering her life’s true purpose. She is the Founder of Conversations Beyond which is a platform that provides inspiration to the everyday woman’s style and soul through a faith & lifestyle blog, web-series, and women’s empowerment meetups/events.


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