How to Overcome the Enemy

How to Overcome the Enemy

With all hell breaking out around you, tears falling to the ground, and debt rising; it would seem strange to praise God. In the story of Jehoshaphat in 2 Chronicles, he and his men were up against three armies in war: the Moabites, the Ammonites, and…

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Doing It: Why I Remain Celibate Until Marriage

Doing It: Why I Remain Celibate Until Marriage

I’ve been in my apartment for about two weeks now and I’m still amazed at God’s faithfulness. I get reluctant to share, sometimes, only because I want y’all to get the fullness of the testimony; not pieces. I don’t want to boast about myself but rather…

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Seeing in the Dark: New Year, New Perspective

Seeing in the Dark: New Year, New Perspective

I don’t know how else to describe the past few weeks of my life aside from: dark. There were days that I laid in bed and felt a dark cloud lingering over me. Darkness can be an analogy for confusion; it can be the time between…

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5 Prayers for My Future Husband

5 Prayers for My Future Husband

Ya’ll know I’ve been in this singleness season for quite some time but no one is counting *coughs 6 years. I’ve gone through my share of seasons: happiness, contentment, impatience, joy, learning, stretching, healing, anger, and disappointment. The one practice that I’ve started to implement is…

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How to Overcome Disappointment

How to Overcome Disappointment

I know what it’s like to wait on something and feel like everyone is getting it but you. This is how I’ve felt about my singleness just about every day over the past few months. I have been waiting, and praying, and serving, and fasting; living…

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What Trusting God in Singleness Really Looks Like

What Trusting God in Singleness Really Looks Like

I remember very early on in my singleness, I read all the books on singleness and marriage and watched all the YouTube videos on “the wait”. In my mind, I was training myself to be a wife. I was “working on myself” so that I would…

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The Weight of the Wait: I’m Tired of Being Single

The Weight of the Wait: I’m Tired of Being Single

I am tired of being single and I am tired of being celibate. The first four years of celibacy were a breeze but the last two years of this journey have been the hardest. The hardest! After losing my dad, the struggle got real. The feeling…

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What To Do When You Don’t Know What’s Next

What To Do When You Don’t Know What’s Next

I remember when I first changed careers, people had a lot of questions. What are you gonna do next? What are your plans? Are you going to design? Are you going to get a fashion job? So you’re blogging now? How are you going to work…

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“Everyone But Me”: A Message for Singles Who Feel Overlooked

“Everyone But Me”: A Message for Singles Who Feel Overlooked

Everybody but meEveryone’s getting married…but me.Everyone’s in relationships…but me.Everyone’s having children…but me.Everyone’s getting ahead…but me.Everyone’s getting blessed…but me. I know what it’s like to believe God for something that you have no evidence will come to pass. It’s seems harder to believe Him for something while…

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Regaining Hope: How to Find Hope After You’ve Lost It

Regaining Hope: How to Find Hope After You’ve Lost It

If you’re reading this, you’ve faced challenges, unpleasant circumstances, wilderness, and dry seasons before. You’ve been hit with news you felt you wouldn’t be able to handle. You’ve experienced traumas you thought you’d never live through. You experienced trials you thought you’d never overcome. These are…

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