I don’t know how else to describe the past few weeks of my life aside from: dark. There were days that I laid in bed and felt a dark cloud lingering over me. Darkness can be an analogy for confusion; it can be the time between…
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Ya’ll know I’ve been in this singleness season for quite some time but no one is counting *coughs 6 years. I’ve gone through my share of seasons: happiness, contentment, impatience, joy, learning, stretching, healing, anger, and disappointment. The one practice that I’ve started to implement is…
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I know what it’s like to wait on something and feel like everyone is getting it but you. This is how I’ve felt about my singleness just about every day over the past few months. I have been waiting, and praying, and serving, and fasting; living…
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I remember very early on in my singleness, I read all the books on singleness and marriage and watched all the YouTube videos on “the wait”. In my mind, I was training myself to be a wife. I was “working on myself” so that I would…
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I am tired of being single and I am tired of being celibate. The first four years of celibacy were a breeze but the last two years of this journey have been the hardest. The hardest! After losing my dad, the struggle got real. The feeling…
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I remember when I first changed careers, people had a lot of questions. What are you gonna do next? What are your plans? Are you going to design? Are you going to get a fashion job? So you’re blogging now? How are you going to work…
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Everybody but meEveryone’s getting married…but me.Everyone’s in relationships…but me.Everyone’s having children…but me.Everyone’s getting ahead…but me.Everyone’s getting blessed…but me. I know what it’s like to believe God for something that you have no evidence will come to pass. It’s seems harder to believe Him for something while…
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If you’re reading this, you’ve faced challenges, unpleasant circumstances, wilderness, and dry seasons before. You’ve been hit with news you felt you wouldn’t be able to handle. You’ve experienced traumas you thought you’d never live through. You experienced trials you thought you’d never overcome. These are…
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“You are forgiven “I heard from the emphatic pastor’s voice that blared over the Uber’s radio. “I felt that in my spirit; I needed to hear that” I thought. Although my friends tried their hardest to remind me of God’s promise to forgive us, it just wasn’t enough.…
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Stillness is a pace.Stillness is a pace.Stillness is a pace. Would you believe me if I said: “You can be still and move at the same time”? This sounds strange and unrealistic doesn’t it? Well God often operates in ways that seem strange and unrealistic; this…
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